Val, darling, for someone as tough as you claim to be, you're being an even bigger bitch thatn you claim he is. We live together, we share a room together, and we live as a couple, not even Coryn and I do that. And as for dad, let's be honest, there isn't a reality where he won't be number one. To anyone.. if he tried, and trust me he doesn't have to. But at least he's respectful enough to not come and interfere. His only issue is his insessent need to come first when he's presant, which isn't often, and I think that's reasonable. So no, you don't have to pretend anything, as much of a drama queen you are, you can cut the act. Just when he's there, let him have his attention. This is my home, You're my home, yes I love Coryn too, but if you haven't noticed, I don't stay with him every night, now do I?